Unintentionally Neglecting My Blog

You know how you get so busy with life and work and extra-curricular activities that you look up and three days have passed? I went to my own blog this morning, and to show you how busy I’ve been, (it’s my home-page), only to find that I haven’t updated since Tuesday!

Truthfully in the little spare time I’ve had in the past few days, I’ve been sleeping, reading and I’ve been writing a new urban fantasy story. I really like one of the main characters that I am writing. I am desperately trying to avoid having my female characters play the proverbial “damsel in distress” as well, which admittedly is not so easy considering my past. What can I say, I liked to be rescued, and that is very hard for me to admit.

My motto on my facebook page is “Trying to bake a tougher cookie…” and I hope that I can be a little more assertive in my dealings with people as I get older, which will hopefully translate into not so wimpy female characters. We write what we know, right?

Wish me luck. I’m gonna need it.

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We know what we write, and we write what we know… One of the reasons I always liked role playing games is that they give people an outlet to express sides of themselves that they otherwise wouldn’t have. They let us “try on” roles, turn them on their heads, roll them around on our tongues and see how the taste lingers. The semi-anonymity of online communities let us carry that a step further since we didn’t have to necessarily deal with the immediate emotional (and sometimes physical) fallout — but that very anonymity that was liberating to some was license to abuse for others.

With all your wonderful creative self-expression, I’m really looking forward to what evolves — both narratively and personally — from this venture. Stretching yourself out of your comfort zone is probably one of the best ways to grow, and to do that you have to take chances both internally and externally. Now that you’re aware of your reflexes, you can give the damsel in distress a few wild twists, roll her between your bitter and sweet taste buds, and surely come up with female characters that are all their own, and that represent both your brains and your fire. You’ve already got an audience, and the audience is listening — and cheering you on!

(I bet you’d really like the female protagonists in Melanie Rawn’s Dragon Prince series, and maybe Laurell K Hamilton’s Anita Blake series, though it gets pretty raunchy further in.)

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